It’s officially been a little more than 30 days since I
started dating Nina and I am happy to report that all is going well, extremely
well to be honest. We talk all the time, we see each other 3-4 times per week
and…drum roll…we’ve begun overnights! So our 3-4 times per week date nights end
in one of our beds. I really do enjoy the time I spend with Nina; it’s very
carefree and easygoing. We talk about everything from her adorable nephews I am
head over heels in love with to my Mother and crazy Brothers.
One night I took her with me to a lesbian social called
The Mixer in Philly because I wanted her to meet one of my good friends. Now
here’s the thing, normally when I’m dating a woman or entering a new
relationship I introduce the woman to my bestie and other close friends. This
usually occurs by attending a game night or social at my besties home. But this
time around I’ve been very closed mouth about who I am dating. My friends know
I am dating someone, they know Nina’s name but they have yet to meet her. Am I
ashamed of Nina? Hell no! I’m very proud to be out with her, we hold hands, and
exchange a subtle kiss in public with no problem. I’ve resigned myself to our
little bubble by choice. If we’re going to have a relationship then I want our
foundation to be strong because I know too well how outside influences can be
detrimental to a new relationship i.e. friends and family disapproving of the
person you’re seeing even though they don’t know the person or telling how and
when certain things should occur in your relationship. So on our terms and time
we are incorporating others into our little bubble.
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