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The thing that I love the most about the show (aside from Kerry Washington’s beauty) is
the love affair between Liv and Fitz. Although it is a tormentuous love affair (he’s the POTUS and married) they are a
beautiful couple, and in my eyes Soul mates. Personally, I love Black
Woman/White Man interracial relationships. I love seeing Black woman courted
and loved by White men. More and more Black women are educated and successful
in this world today. We out number Black males in Baccalaureate, Masters, Juris
Doctorate, Medical programs, and are more likely to be the sole and or largest
bread winner in the home. Black women are pretty much holding it down and those
who have a higher level of education and success want a partner who can bring
the same or more to the table. Yet truth be told, a lot of Black men cannot
deliver.
Growing up, I always heard of how Italian and Jewish men
loved Black women, how they secretly coveted Black women, and how many of them
would love to marry a Black woman but were unsure of how to approach them.
Being a Lesbian I’ve never dated men, nor have I had the desire to date men but
I still get hit on a lot by men (the
price you pay for being feminine). Majority of the men who approach me are
White men, and nine times out of ten they are successful – suit and tie, white
coat (translation M.D.), executive
titles, etc. Some have had relationships with Black women, while others are
still waiting for the opportunity to do so. White men are more inclined to
settle down and start a family as opposed to bed hopping and being hauled into
Family Court for child support issues.
If I were Straight I’d be with a White man, but I’m not. As
I have mentioned before, all of my relationships have been with White women.
Not something I particularly went looking for, just the way it has been since I
was 16. I recently tried going on dates with Black women but either we don’t
click (my personality is more “polished”
and refined than the average Black woman) or they expected one of us to
assume the Stud or Femme position which is NEVER going to happen.
So I guess I have to continue to go for what I know and in
the realm of Lesbian relationships all I know is interracial love and I have
found it numerous times with White women. I know some may question the
genuineness of interracial love, and if one could truly be happy with someone
who is of another ethnicity/culture than me. I have never felt awkward in any
of my relationships, in fact I related to my White girlfriends better than I
have ever to any Black woman I have talked to or been on date with. Quiet as it
may be kept, White Lesbians like Black Lesbians but they (like anyone with common sense) won’t date just any Black Lesbian.
They have standards like the rest of us so education, income, class,
sophistication, and a non-hood mentality are a must. White women are more
likely to not have any children or ex-husband/baby daddy drama (the same can be said for White men – less likely
to have children out of wedlock and all over town as opposed to Black men)
which is a huge deal breaker for me, and when it comes to education and success
we are always on point about what we want for our lives and where we want to
be. Now that’s not to say that there are not Black Lesbians who do not fall
into that education and success category because there are plenty…we just don’t
mesh. What are your thoughts on Interracial Love?
"Frank & Rachel"
"Len & Etta"
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